And I realize you guys are being treated unfairly to pay for what some jerk did to a woman. People aren’t honest and kind anymore to each other. Mmm i don’t mind male friends but I’d like to find a man who is interested in sex. If he can’t work it one way I’d hope he would be able to do it another way. I’m pretty white bread when it comes to sexual practices but my assumption there is a lot to work within the non alternative sex path.
At 50 I just want a nice guy my age in reasonable shape to share my life with. Of course I want for the man to be able to support himself, but his money and status is not important to me. It may be hard for men in this age range to date, but it’s also no picnic for women, especially since I have found dating sites to be a waste of time, and I don’t care for the bar scene. I messaged a number of women over the first couple of months and never even received a reply. I started to wonder whether there was something wrong with me or with my own profile, but then I received a reply from a lovely lady in her early forties who was divorced with three children. She is of Philo background but lived in Aust.
When this question comes up in conversation, someone inevitably cites the half your age plus seven rule. This rule states that by dividing your own age by two and then adding seven you can find the socially acceptable https://hookupranker.com/romaniakiss-review/ minimum age of anyone you want to date. At this age, he knows if he is best suited to dating a younger partner, someone near his age, or an older person. He knows what traits and values are important to him.
Me, I prefer less stress and so I guess you could say I am trying to slow life down instead of speed it up. I don’t live a boring life but just don’t need to chase adrenaline rushes all the time. You know I guess I have a different attitude than a lot of older men. We probably all need to feel loved a appreciated by someone whether it is someone our age or someone younger or even older. I can be attracted to someone younger than me or someone close to my age or older if the chemistry is right but I want it to be real not just about sex.
And yes, the sex can be great.
I went online tonight looking for articles to give tips and ways to make the best of my situation. You even let them shack up with their boyfriends on your dime. I have a 22 year old son at Uof I and a daughter who is a senior in H.S. I try to look at the good in people and treat them the way I’d like to be treated.
They’ll love the confidence you’ve gained from experience, too.
They’re not the kind of partner, or even friend, that you want. I am an attractive 50+ year old who is an independent, sexy, passionate and confident woman. I take care of myself and value health. I already have another man wanting a serious relationship with me who is 10 years younger than me.
Not because I do not want a partner but more the quality of the woman I met. My 2 big complaints are they got married early and had kids and want to do things that they missed out on. The other is they have no job, no money after 50 years and they are looking for a sugar daddy. I can be a SD but my days of the monitory support is over.
Sex after 50 is all about attitude! Started dating after a 25 yr marriage. Not sure what I want beyond companionship and sex, but I am totally open to the possibilities. I feel this is a good post and it can serve as advice to many people out there going through rough situations.
It might mean less pain for me in the long run, even though I enjoyed marriage when I had it, hard work and all. Seriously Anonymous….are you even real? I keep reading your post and it’s evident that we share the same views on life and that is not something I find often in men today. You are so right in that technology has made a big difference in how we communicate and meet people. While it can offer convenience, it can also be cold and impersonal. I find so little satisfaction in it.
You must have grown up in West Virginia? Where the men are men and the sheep are nervous. You’re to thoughtful, intelligent to get so stuck.
How about in the world there are a lot of attractive 50 + yr old women. We do not all “look old” or act old. I see what you are saying in a way. When you hit 50’s thats when people the same age can look very different.